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Post by babytheleopard on Jun 22, 2008 23:03:19 GMT -5
I've often wondered about Kate and Spence's relationship. I know they cared for each other, I just wish there was more we knew about them. It just seems that they had an open relationship. Do you ever think they could have married? I kind of find it not possible...I think they really cared for and loved each other, but it just seems that Kate loved her independence too much, and Spence still had ties with his wife because of their son. As much as I wish they had married, I find it impossible. They had that sort of relationship where it happened when it convenient for them I think.
Any thoughts?
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Post by Hep on Sept 27, 2008 20:55:05 GMT -5
I had this conversation with my grams befoah.. about marriage and all that junk. and my feelings toward it is that you dont need to get married to prove that you love eachother and youll always be there for eachother.. till death and all that.. my grandma thinks otherwise..
then I got thinking.. well what about KatenSpence. if Louise wasnt around.. would they have gotten married? yea Kate enjoyed being independant and such, but she DID give up a whole lot for Spence, and she said that she did change things about her he didnt like and things like that.. she was vulnerable to him..
I wonder if they wouldve gotten married; I personally think it would not be an outrageous question; it couldve been very possible.
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Post by HollywoodHepcat on Sept 27, 2008 21:09:18 GMT -5
Buttin' in again, I actually think of them as an old married couple sans the legal documents. The give-and-take was all there, which is essentially what I think marriage is. Although, what do I know? I'm only 19.
I think marriage is lovely and to be taken seriously, but unfortunately 1 out of 2 [that's half!] of modern marriages end in divorce. Kate and Spencer were lucky in that they had the option of a "break" and there's no denying they used it at times. This isn't to say if they had gotten married that they would have divorced. There's so many factors to be considered: each party's baggage and burdens and needs and wants. I guess there's no use in muddling over it, although I've gone through my guilty-pleasure musings as much as the next person .
I'm just happy they were happy, together, for 27 years.
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Post by Hep on Sept 28, 2008 23:13:35 GMT -5
wait; it was 25 right? well it may as well been 27.. gah I love them..rings or no rings; even though Spence played bad boy in the 50's which made Kath die a little inside; I can suck it up and forgive him. C'mon Spence lets go out for a drink; watch it though, your drivin home tonight kiddo. maybe we should skip the drink.. you do get a little overboard with it mr. Captains Corageous, and evidently I need to hit the hay; while Kate puts some in her mouth before sneaking out of the barn, then getting shoved back in by the boob; you slay me Spencer.
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Post by HollywoodHepcat on Sept 28, 2008 23:54:04 GMT -5
I think it best if you keep your head out of the medicine cabinet, chum.
[Even though half of what you wrote I myself have observed and vocalized enthusiastically at one point or another. Kaaaaaate makes me ridiculous.]
I..... say 27 because Kate says 27. There are two more years floating around that timeline somewhere.
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Post by Hep on Sept 29, 2008 9:46:25 GMT -5
haha I forgot I even wrote that last night ! LOL I was half asleep; that HI-larious. whas' wrong with me?
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Post by HollywoodHepcat on Sept 29, 2008 10:19:56 GMT -5
You were either tired, heavily medicated or over-exposed to me in the past. ;D S'ok, you managed to include the most awkward scene in AR PLUS a WL quote, so hooray! And then you made a play date with Spensuh.... Oh deeuh, pal.
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Post by Hep on Sept 29, 2008 11:30:42 GMT -5
haha it was a mix of each.. LMAO thats great.
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